We are wiping off tears of joy because Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are married! On 27 September 2025, the “Love On” singer shared the first images of her wedding and followed it with more posts from the intimate and heart-warming moments from the ceremony. As the newlyweds embark on this new chapter, let’s rewind the relationship timeline of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco.
From peppy breakup anthems to classic love songs, Gomez has channelled her romantic energy into countless numbers that encapsulate the essence of love and life. Well, Lady Sel has had a happening relationship history herself, featuring a trail of Hollywood heartthrobs ‘loving her like a love song’.
While Gomez’s innocent teenage fling with Nick Jonas fills fans with nostalgia, her on-off relationship with ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber, which culminated in a final breakup in 2018, left fans rooting for Selena to find love again.
As they say, love never fails the one who is truly willing to go all in for it. Selena Gomez found love again with music producer Benny Blanco.
Gomez and Blanco’s relationship timeline is a classic example of the friends-to-lovers tale. The duo, who had been friends and musical collaborators for years before falling for each other, made their relationship public in late 2023, and have since been madly, deeply and unapologetically in love.
While their tons of PDA on social media speak volumes about their strong relationship, the Rare Beauty founder has even publicly called her husband “the best thing that’s ever happened to me”. So, let’s take a look at the adorable relationship timeline of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco.
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s complete relationship timeline
28 February 2019: The two collaborate on the song ‘I Can’t Get Enough’
A few years before their relationship turned romantic, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco collaborated on the song “I Can’t Get Enough”. The singer starred in the music video and shared a cute scene with Blanco as she was in pyjamas, and he dressed as a big white teddy bear.
The song also featured Tainy and J Balvin.
8 June 2023: Gomez announces she’s single
Nothing frisky transpired between the two until 2023, when they worked together once more, on Gomez’s single, “Single Soon”, which came out in August.
However, a month before the pop star released her single, she teased fans with a fun TikTok announcing her solo status to a team of soccer players. “I’m single! I’m just a little high maintenance,” she shouts in the clip.
7 December 2023: Selena Gomez confirms she is dating Benny Blanco with her big ‘B’ bling
After the release of their song, Gomez, in December, revealed that she’d been dating Blanco for about six months. However, the “Lose You to Love Me” singer had started dropping hints about their relationship much earlier by liking and commenting on Instagram posts that said the two were dating.
She also replied to some fans who questioned the relationship, writing in the comments, “Then why has he been the best thing that’s ever happened to me. The end.”
To another user, she replied, “I don’t understand. If you actually care about me. This is my happiest. If you don’t feel free to say whatever you want. But I will never allow your words to guide my life. Ever. I’m done. If you can’t accept me at my happiest then don’t be in [m]y life at all.”
Mid-December 2023: Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez make their relationship Instagram official
A week after going public with their relationship, Gomez shared a cosy behind-the-scenes glimpse into her romance with the song producer. She posted a photo of Blanco cuddling into her while she hugged him on her Instagram story and did not caption the picture, alluding to fans that they were official.
21 December 2023: Gomez shares what she’s looking for in a partner
In an interview with Vogue México y Latinoamérica, Gomez revealed that self-respect and holding space for others’ feelings are the non-negotiables she looks for in a partner and her relationship.
Though she didn’t name Blanco, she said she’s started to be involved with the ‘right kind’ of people. A few days later, the “Calm Down” singer also posted another photo of the two hugging and smiling while enjoying a day out on a dock on her Instagram.
1 January 2024: Ringing in the New Year together
Throughout December, their relationship gained further momentum, and there was a flurry of PDA coming from the musician duo. Gomez and Blanco also rang in 2024 together, based on a picture the singer shared on her Instagram story over New Year’s weekend. In the snap, Blanco sweetly wrapped his arms around Gomez and appears to kiss her, while she holds his arm and leans her head into him.
2 January 2024: Benny Blanco makes his relationship with Selena Gomez Instagram official
The couple brought their relationship into the new year, with the music producer posting a photo of his pop star girlfriend smiling into the camera on his Instagram Story. He followed it with another photo of a grinning Gomez covering her face with manicured red nails.
5 January 2024: A courtside date and a red-carpet kiss
The next public moment in the relationship timeline of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco was a courtside date. The two attended a Los Angeles Lakers home game and were spotted cuddling up courtside on 5 January.
Later, the couple was seen making their red carpet debut at the Golden Globes. Though they didn’t walk the red carpet together, Gomez posted photos of herself and Blanco sharing a smooch behind the scenes at the awards night on her Instagram Story. She later added another set of pictures where Blanco can be seen kissing her neck and hugging her.
15 January 2024: Gomez and Blanco attend the 75th Primetime Emmy Awards
After the Golden Globes, Gomez brought Blanco to the 2024 Emmys, where her show Only Murders in the Building, co-starring Martin Short and Steve Martin, was nominated for Best Comedy Series. The two did not walk the red carpet together, but Blanco joined the “Love On” singer inside Los Angeles’ Peacock Theater.
February 2024: Gomez says Blanco makes her feel safe
While talking to host Zane Lowe during an appearance on New Music Daily on Apple Music 1 to promote her single “Love On”, Gomez opened up about her relationship.
“Without getting into too much detail, I think it’s just really important to meet someone that respects you,” she said, adding, “And I think it’s really nice to also lean on someone who understands the world that I live in. But I’d have to say overall it’s the safest that I feel and it’s been really lovely and I’ve only grown through it, so it’s awesome.”
8 March 2024: Selena Gomez celebrates Benny Blanco’s 36th birthday
In honour of her boyfriend Benny Blanco’s 36th birthday, Gomez gave him a sweet shout-out on Instagram. She wrote, “Happy birthday baby! Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humour and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me,” she captioned a series of photos and videos. “I love you @itsbennyblanco,” she added.
Also read: “Love Yourself” and other hit songs you didn’t know pop producer Benny Blanco was behind
25 April 2024: Blanco sheds light on their love story
In an interview in April with the Wall Street Journal, Blanco reflected on his love story with Gomez. He talked about how he first realised he had feelings for the songstress while the pair were in a recording session together. “I was the last one to know,” he noted. “It’s crazy how your partner could just be sitting there the whole time, right in front of your eyes, and you don’t even notice, and then you have that Clueless moment where you’re like, ‘Wait, I’m in love.’”
The music producer also mentioned that the two share a passion for cooking and often work together in the kitchen.
May 2024: Selena celebrates Open Wide; the power couple reveal they want children
“So proud of you”, Gomez posted as she posted photos of celebrating Blanco’s cookbook Open Wide, which was released in April 2024. The couple cut a cake shaped like the book cover of the book amid close friends.
On 14 May, Blanco mentioned his long-term plans with Gomez and shared that he would love to have kids soon during his appearance on The Howard Stern Show.
“That’s my next goal, to check the box,” Blanco said of becoming a father, adding, “I have a ton of god kids; I’ve got a ton of nephews. I love being around kids.”
22 July 2024: A PDA-filled 32nd birthday for Selena
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The duo celebrated Selena Gomez’s 32nd birthday at the beach with Blanco and some friends. The pop star even showed off her letter “B” charm necklace on Instagram. Having dated for about a year now, the producer made a cute post reflecting on one of their journey and their first collaboration: “I Can’t Get Enough”, for which he dressed as a white teddy bear.
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In reply, Gomez posted an adorable snap of the two on Instagram Stories and captioned it, “Love of my life.” A couple of days later, the “Good For You” singer shared a series of cuddly photos with Blanco and set high couple goals. Some mushy, some goofy, these photos prove their relationship timeline is only getting stronger. Gomez captioned it, “Thank you for sharing your life with me today and every day”.
August 2024: Sparks of engagement rumours
A major turning point in the relationship timeline of Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez arrived in August when the “Who Says” singer posted a candid Instagram story while she and Blanco were getting ready to step out. As she hid her fingers with a double-heart emoji, it gave rise to speculations.
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She also posted a carousel of images and videos of the two enjoying some quality time. From partying to snuggling in, and even a screenshot of Gomez left unanswered when she Facetimed her boyfriend — relatable!
September 2024: Selena Gomez opens up about Benny Blanco in a cover story
In a cover story interview with Vanity Fair, Gomez opened up about her and Blanco’s romance and said, “I’ve never been loved this way.” Their love and fondness were evident when she added, “He’s just been a light. A complete light in my life. He’s my best friend. I love telling him everything.”
Commenting about marriage and how they are in no rush to get hitched, she said, “We always make sure we’re protecting what we have, but there’s no rules. I want him to always be himself. I always want to be myself.”
October- November 2024: Premieres, interviews and more romantic posts
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The couple celebrate Halloween in a “Curious and Curiouser” way. While he dressed as the Mad Hatter, she channelled Alice in a grey bouncy dress and a black ribbon.
As a supportive partner, Blanco joined Gomez for the Los Angeles premiere of her new film Emilia Pérez. The movie received the highest number of Golden Globe nominations in 2024. Later that month, she posted yet another mushy picture with her boyfriend and even sat down with Hollywood Reporter and spoke about why she keeps posting their pictures on Instagram.
“When you put a little bit out there, people are not as hungry to hunt you down.” “Like, if they hear something, they’re going to, but if you’re like, ‘I did it,’ they’re like, ‘Oh, well there’s you, just going to Sushi Park.’ But there’s so much of my relationship people don’t see, that’s just mine,” she added.
December 2024: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco get engaged
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco revealed their engagement on social media. The “Fetish” singer posted a string of images on Instagram on 12 December showing off her large diamond engagement ring. She captioned them “Forever begins now…” and Blanco left a sweet comment, “hey wait… that’s my wife”. Her best friend and singer Taylor Swift also expressed her joy and wrote, “yes I will be the flower girl”.
February 2025: A new album from Selena and Benny
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On Valentine’s Day, the couple announced their first joint album I Said I Love You First. They also teased the first song, “Scared of Loving You”.
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On 15 February, Blanco posted a video of their V Day date, and it couldn’t get cuter than this. He made a trail of tortilla chips that ended at a “I <3 You” made of those chips. A fun caption accompanied saying, “when your fiancé isn’t much of a flowers girl”. Gomez commented, “I love everything bout this.”
August 2025: Selena’s bachelorette trip to Mexico
This celebrity couple loves sharing mushy photos, and we aren’t complaining. Fans got a big update when Gomez shared a slew of snaps from her bachelorette trip to Mexico. It was a dreamy, fun-filled beach getaway with her gal pals and featured Cult Gaia’s white Kaela dress.
September 2025: Romantic lake trip and more cute photos
The month began with the two enjoying a lakeside vacation, which she aptly called “lake life.”
On 15 September, Blanco attended the 2025 Emmys with his lady love. Her show, Only Murders in the Building, was nominated for Outstanding Comedy Series. The couple stunned on the red carpet with Gomez wearing a red Louis Vuitton gown and Blanco dressed in an embroidered shirt under an all-black suit.
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She also captured the beautifully candlelit backyard surprise that Blanco and planned for her after the award ceremony. “Grateful for all these people forever and always,” she captioned the post, adding, “Came home to a surprise my baby put together ☺️”
27 September 2025: The two say “I do”
This is the biggest update in the Selena Gomez-Benny Blanco relationship timeline.
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On 27 September, Gomez confirmed they got married that day and shared the first photos from their Santa Barbara wedding. Blanco commented on her post, “my wife in real life.”
They got married in front of nearly 200 guests, including Paris Hilton, SZA, Zoe Saldaña, Paul Rudd, Halsey, and Julia Michaels. Musicians Taylor Swift and Ed Sheeran reportedly gave speeches at the reception.
The following day, Blanco posted photos from the after-party. In the shots, the newlyweds can be seen relaxing on a couch in their Ralph Lauren wedding attires. Blanco captioned the post “I married a real life disney princess.”
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On 30 September, Gomez offered more sneak peeks from the celebration. The cake, her floral bouquet, her Ralph Lauren outfits, her father walking her down the aisle, the couple dancing and more made it a heartfelt post.
Hero and featured image: Courtesy Selena Gomez/@selenagomez via Instagram
Note : The information in this article is accurate as of the date of publication.