Op-Ed: The Harith Iskander Controversy – A Lesson in Civility, Accountability, and the Power of Words

Opinion
28 Jan 2025 • 8:30 AM MYT
Mihar Dias
Mihar Dias

A behaviourist by training, a consultant and executive coach by profession

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Harith Iskander’s family threatened. The Sun

By Mihar Dias January 2025

The recent cancellation of Harith Iskander’s show at Dewan Filharmonik Petronas (DFP) following death threats against his family is a stark reminder of how quickly public discourse can spiral into dangerous territory. https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2025/01/25/death-threats-to-family-forced-harith-iskandar-to-cancel-show

What began as a seemingly innocuous joke about a coffee drink’s name escalated into a wave of online vitriol, culminating in threats so severe that they forced the cancellation of a highly anticipated event.

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Dewan Filharmonik Petronas. Event cancelled. Image credit: @dewanfilharmonikpetronas

This incident raises critical questions about the state of public discourse, the limits of humour, and the consequences of unchecked online behaviour.

The Incident: A Joke Gone Awry

Harith Iskander, a beloved Malaysian comedian, made a lighthearted comment about the name of a coffee drink, “ham sap kopi,” which he found amusing due to its unintended reference to a “ham and cheese” sandwich. https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2025/01/25/death-threats-to-family-forced-harith-iskandar-to-cancel-show

While the joke may have been intended as harmless humour, it inadvertently touched on a sensitive issue for some, leading to backlash. The situation worsened when individuals took their grievances to an extreme, issuing death threats and vile abuse targeting Harith’s children. This escalation is not only disproportionate but also deeply troubling. https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2025/01/25/death-threats-to-family-forced-harith-iskandar-to-cancel-show

The Implications: A Society on Edge

The cancellation of Harith’s show is a loss not just for him and his family but for Malaysian society as a whole. It reflects a growing intolerance for differing perspectives and an alarming willingness to resort to intimidation and violence to silence dissent.

The fact that threats against children were used as leverage is particularly abhorrent and underscores the depths to which some are willing to sink in the name of expressing outrage.

This incident also highlights the double-edged sword of social media. While platforms like Instagram and Facebook provide a space for dialogue and connection, they can also amplify anger and hostility. The anonymity and distance afforded by the internet often embolden individuals to say things they would never dare to utter in person. The result is a toxic environment where reasoned debate is replaced by knee-jerk reactions and personal attacks.

Lessons to Be Learned

1. The Power of Words: Harith’s joke, while seemingly trivial, serves as a reminder that words carry weight. In a multicultural and multi-religious society like Malaysia, humour must be wielded with care, as what may seem funny to one person could be offensive to another. This is not to say that comedians should self-censor entirely, but rather that they must be mindful of the potential impact of their words.

2. The Need for Civility: The death threats against Harith’s family are a gross violation of basic human decency. No matter how strongly one disagrees with a public figure, there is no justification for threatening their safety or that of their loved ones. This incident should serve as a wake-up call for Malaysians to recommit to civility and respect in public discourse.

3. Accountability in the Digital Age: The anonymity of the internet often emboldens individuals to act without consequence. However, the police investigation into this matter is a step in the right direction. It sends a clear message that online threats and harassment will not be tolerated. Moving forward, there must be greater accountability for those who use the internet as a tool for intimidation.

4. Protecting Freedom of Expression: While Harith’s joke may have been controversial, it is essential to defend his right to express himself. Comedy has long been a vehicle for social commentary and a way to navigate complex issues. Suppressing it through threats and intimidation sets a dangerous precedent that could stifle creativity and free speech.

Moving Forward

The cancellation of Harith’s show is a loss for Malaysian culture, but it also presents an opportunity for reflection. As a society, we must ask ourselves how we can foster a more inclusive and respectful public discourse. This begins with holding ourselves accountable for our words and actions, both online and offline. It also requires a collective effort to reject extremism and uphold the values of tolerance and understanding.

Harith Iskander’s ordeal is a sobering reminder of the fragility of public discourse in the digital age. Let us learn from this incident and strive to build a society where differences are met with dialogue rather than threats, and where humour can be enjoyed without fear of retribution. Only then can we truly move forward as a united and progressive nation.


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