Why Top Students Still Struggle in Life: The Truth About Curriculum Obsession

Opinion
29 Jul 2025 • 2:00 PM MYT
Daniel Loh
Daniel Loh

Founder of Stellar, Author of Purposebility, Inspiring values and life.

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A Morning That Taught More Than Any Textbook

It was a quiet Sunday in Gelang Patah, Johor.

Our family sat at a traditional coffee shop, sharing breakfast. Ceiling fans stirred the morning air, while nearby tables echoed with the hum of casual chatter. Later, we brought the children to the wet market. Fish scales glistened underfoot, aunties bargained over bundles of vegetables. The smell of earth, salt, and sweat lingered in the air.

None of it was tidy, none of it was curated. But it was real.

And in that moment, I realised something that shapes how I now see education. We do not raise children only through syllabi. We shape them through what we choose to show them. Not just polished surroundings, but the parts of the world that still pulse with effort, humanity, and truth.

Why Knowledge Alone Is Not Enough

According to the World Economic Forum, 44 percent of current job skills will be obsolete by 2027. Almost half. And what will matter most? Not grades. Not rote knowledge. But resilience, adaptability, and curiosity.

A study by University College London showed that London taxi drivers develop larger hippocampi, the part of the brain responsible for navigation after memorising 25,000 streets. Their brains changed because the work stretched them.

Our children’s education should do the same. It should stretch. Not shield.

Finland understands this: With minimal homework and fewer standardised tests, they still lead globally in educational outcomes. But more importantly, they honour their educators. Every teacher holds a Master’s degree. They are trusted, respected, and treated as professionals not just content-deliverers.

Real Purpose Begins Where the Resume Ends

When we speak of “future-ready,” we often mean preparing for exams, universities, or stable careers. But the truth is, the future has little patience for our predictions. What it demands is something deeper: a compass to navigate complexity, ambiguity, and change.

Top universities like Oxford and Stanford already look for more than marks. They seek learners who ask big questions. Who carry stories of failure, insight, and reflection. Who do not just chase success, but understand why they are chasing it.

I did not always know this. I studied accountancy because it was safe. But in my final year, I chose to help a student who had fallen behind after a long illness. It was not a project. There was no reward. But for the first time, something I knew became meaningful to someone else.

That moment changed everything. It shifted me from survival to significance. From job-seeking to purpose-finding.

If We Want Purposeful Students, We Need Purposeful Teachers

Since then, I have met many educators across Southeast Asia who quietly carry the same mission. They are often undervalued and overworked, yet they persist because they believe in the children they teach.

But belief is not enough. Teachers must be supported, respected, and empowered.

Because if teachers are weary, classrooms become uninspired. If school leaders are unclear, school culture becomes shaky. If founders focus only on profit, students will grow up chasing paychecks instead of purpose.

Let us not raise children who are only resume-ready. Let us raise children who are world-ready. Not just for careers, but for life.

They do not need more worksheets. They need more wisdom. They do not need more pressure. They need a compass.

Because the future will not be handed to them. It will be shaped by them.


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