I didn’t lose weight for abs. I lost it because my wife couldn’t sleep next to me anymore.

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28 Sep 2025 • 7:00 AM MYT
Timothy Tiah
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By Timtiah

At my peak weight, I was still exercising… but eating like a teenage boy who just discovered buffets. Result? Industrial-grade snoring.

I tried mouth tape, nose sprays… even saw my ENT, Dr James Kok. He told me my snoring could be linked to sleep apnea, which may increase long-term risks. My options were:

– Lose some weight

– Or sleep every night with a CPAP (aka the Darth Vader mask).

So I chose weight loss. And it worked. My wife sleeps again, and for the first time in 10 years… she even complimented my thigh muscles.

Love > abs.

If you snore, get yourself checked. I saw ENT Dr James Kok at Sunway Damansara Medical Centre, and his advice helped me figure out my next step. @entdocjames

Disclaimer: This is just my personal experience. Always consult a qualified doctor for medical advice.

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Image from: I didn’t lose weight for abs. I lost it because my wife couldn’t sleep next to me anymore.
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Image from: I didn’t lose weight for abs. I lost it because my wife couldn’t sleep next to me anymore.
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