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By Mihar Dias (C) Copyright May 2024
In an age where our children face unprecedented challenges and distractions, the wisdom of our elders often provides a beacon of light to guide them.
I come from a large family where my father, a draftsman in the Drainage and Irrigation Department, earned a modest RM300 per month. Despite our financial constraints, I was blessed with a scholarship from a US university and a local agency, enabling me to pursue higher education in New York.
The night before I left for college, my father, a man of few words and deep faith, came home from the mosque and imparted a piece of wisdom that has stayed with me ever since. He said, “Son, tomorrow you'll leave for New York, but remember, God exists in America too!”
This simple yet profound statement carries a powerful message for young parents today. In a world filled with moral ambiguity and constant change, instilling a sense of religious belief and moral grounding in our children is more crucial than ever. Here is how parents can use this principle to guide their young adults:
Faith, regardless of its form, offers a framework for distinguishing right from wrong. It provides a set of ethical guidelines that can help young adults navigate the complexities of modern life. Teach your children that their faith is a constant, no matter where they are or what they face. It’s a moral compass that remains steady, guiding them through the stormy seas of life.
My father's words remind us that faith transcends geographical boundaries. Encourage your children to respect and recognise the presence of diverse beliefs wherever they go. This understanding fosters tolerance, empathy, and a broader worldview, helping them become respectful and open-minded global citizens.
As young adults step into new environments, they are often exposed to differing values and practices. Equip them with a strong foundation in their own beliefs and values, so they can hold onto their principles even when faced with contrasting ideologies. This internal consistency is key to maintaining integrity and making morally sound decisions.
Emphasise the importance of regular prayer or reflection, regardless of the demands of their new life. These practices offer solace, clarity, and a reminder of their core values, helping them stay grounded amidst the hustle and bustle of life. Encourage them to set aside time daily for spiritual connection, as it nurtures their inner peace and fortitude.
As parents, the best way to teach is by example. Live your faith openly and sincerely, showing your children the practical application of religious beliefs in everyday life. Whether through acts of kindness, integrity in your dealings, or the way you treat others, your actions will speak louder than any words.
Create a safe space for your children to discuss their doubts, fears, and experiences regarding their faith and morals. An open dialogue ensures they feel supported and understood, reinforcing their trust in the guidance you provide. This also allows you to address any misconceptions and provide reassurance when needed.
In conclusion, the essence of my father's advice is timeless: faith is not confined by borders. By nurturing this belief in our children, we equip them with an unshakeable foundation that will guide them through life's myriad challenges. Let us, as parents, embrace this responsibility with love and dedication, ensuring our young adults grow into morally upright and spiritually enriched individuals.
Remember, no matter where life takes them, God exists there too.
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