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By Mihar Dias May 2026
There are birthday parties, and then there are gatherings that feel like an informal session of the United Nations—with considerably better food and far fewer speeches.
On my most recent trip to the Indonesian island of Bali to celebrate the 72nd birthday of a distinguished plastic surgeon and dear friend, Dr. Marco, I found myself among a remarkable collection of humanity. What began as a birthday celebration soon became a lesson in how small the world has become.
Around the tables and beneath the tropical night sky were guests from Guatemala, Australia, California, Ukraine, Kazakhstan, Argentina, Brazil, Uzbekistan, South Korea, and of course our gracious hosts from Indonesia, together with several fellow Malaysians.
The guest of honour, a beloved friend from Porto Alegre whom many of us have known for a quarter of a century, seemed almost secondary to the fascinating conversations unfolding around him. Every table offered a different geography lesson. One moment you were discussing the beaches of Western Australia; the next, the vineyards of Argentina, the rebuilding of Ukraine, the dynamism of Kazakhstan, or the rapid development of Indonesia.
Language barriers appeared briefly and then vanished. English, Portuguese, Spanish, Bahasa Indonesia, Korean, Russian and a handful of other tongues floated through the evening, somehow merging into the universal language of laughter. It turns out that a smile requires no translation and a raised glass is understood in every country represented.
What struck me most was not our diversity but our similarities. Regardless of nationality, everyone shared stories about family, careers, travel adventures, aging gracefully—or attempting to—and the friendships that make life's journey worthwhile. The concerns and aspirations of a Brazilian surgeon, a Californian entrepreneur, an Australian retiree, or a Malaysian journalist were often remarkably alike.
In a world where headlines constantly remind us of divisions between nations, cultures and ideologies, this gathering provided a refreshing counterpoint. Here were people from four continents and countless backgrounds, not negotiating treaties or debating politics, but celebrating friendship. No visas were required at the dinner table. No passports were checked before sharing a joke.
Perhaps that was the real significance of the evening. The birthday marked 72 years in the life of one man, but it also celebrated something larger—the enduring ability of friendship to cross oceans, cultures and generations.
As the night drew to a close in Bali's warm tropical air, I was reminded that while geography may divide us into countries, friendship has a habit of ignoring borders altogether. For one memorable evening, Villa Kalimaya in Bali became the centre of a very happy world, proving that the best international summit is often a birthday party among friends.
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